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It is a conversation on concerns regarding INFP friend that is best (reverse intercourse) in the INFP Forum – The Idealists discussion boards, an element of the NF’s Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; I’m an INTJ man. Perchance you dudes may help me realize my feminine INFP friend that is best better. I would ike to first.
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Concerns regarding INFP friend that is best (contrary intercourse). We’m an INTJ man. Perchance you dudes may help me realize my feminine INFP closest friend better.
Allow me first say her dearly as my friend that I love. Her character fits David Keirsey’s INFP description nearly to your page. Whenever I first came across her, 9 years back, i did not realize about character kinds but we felt that her brain had a great heat and deepness, that she could share thoughts by having an strength that I experiencedn’t sensed before but that her irrationality might make me get crazy. Even with 9 years she actually is still a huge, wonderful secret if you ask me and unravelling its secrets is going to be a job for the others of my entire life. If I do not get pea nuts before that. BTW before anybody asks the reason WE failed to be a few, we currently was at an LTR once I came across her and I also’m nevertheless within the LTR that is same and pleased with it. Therefore also though we’d a serious crush for each other several years ago our company is close friends and that is that.
Into the 9 years i have known her she’s got dropped in deep love with (or has received a severe crush on) 8 different dudes. Many of them are not available (including myself), along with the rest she has had relationships that lasted from two months to at least one 1/2 years. Virtually every time she fell so in love with someone she said exactly how this guy can be so unique and various from most of the remainder and exactly how she seems as if she’d already know just him for quite some time etc. She was constantly utterly and completely in love and place this option (often IMO guys that are rather average. To put it moderately) on a pedestal. Nonetheless following a relationship is finished (regardless of if she finished it or even the man) she is constantly belittling the necessity of this relationship to her. She is saying such things as “we don’t simply simply simply take this relationship extremely serious anyhow. ” Okay, i am aware it is a protection device but we believe it is it. Dare i personally use the term in this forum. “naive” to ALWAYS get into similar trap, to praise some guy as if he had been the top love of her life after once you understand him for 6 days after which placing him down whenever he split up together with her a couple of months later on. Additionally we wonder why she does not appear to feel “ashamed” at all to at first constantly speak about this option just as if these people were send straight straight straight down from paradise and just a weeks/months that are few utilize the “he was not that great anyway” routine. Is this typical for INFPs?
What about you dudes?
Can you additionally fall in love therefore easily? Would you additionally feel EACH TIME that this time around oahu is the big passion for your life?
Do not you’re feeling ridiculous as a result of it following the fifth or time that is 6th? Do not you begin to be much more cautious in the beginning of a relationship? Do you realy additionally constantly belittle your emotions following the relationship is finished?
And yet another thing: would you additionally imagine being madly deeply in love with someone as well as the time that is same an extremely close, instead intimate (but non-sexual) friendship with someone through the opposing intercourse (or of the identical intercourse if you are gay)? Sometimes it appears become very puzzling to her, this has developed plenty of psychological turbulences through the years and we also’ve had times whenever certainly one of us or both required some distance but that never lasted longer than the usual 14 days.